Don't Compare Yourself to Others!!

 
 
 
We have seen many people around us whether they are our family, close ones or friends ;they have a habit of comparing their life with others and get jealous. This kind of persons never get success in their life because they couldn’t thought of self progress ,self ability ,to see inside talent etc..

The tendency to compare ourselves to others is a common human nature. I have read a very beautiful thought to understand why not to  compare more deeply and i.e “Comparison is the thief of joy.” —Theodore Roosevelt.
If we can understand this deeply then we can understand why we don’t have to compare our self with others. We always compare our negative points of nature with others positive ones. But we forget that everyone is different,everyone has different ability then others. May be the happiness we have is a wish for someone else also. comparison stops our self to see what is inside us and we have been always in a thought processing of what we don’t have. That is the way we stop our self to feel happy and joyful.
There is important in remembering that nobody is perfect and nobody is living a painless life.

If you want to compare then compare with yourself. Find the new thing which you have learned today comparing yesterday. Give a change to your routine life, take a walk, observe your surroundings. This thing helps you to come out of negative thoughts and to observe the ability of yours. Always be grateful for what you have in your life. Try to make yourself better and better. Remember that someone else don’t have same dreams, goals like you, nobody has the same journey, pain of life compare to you.
There is a beautiful quote to understand this thing deeply that “There is no comparison between The Sun and The Moon ,They shine when it’s their time”. So think about it and start working.